Girl or Boy?

Well, we don't know yet if this baby is going to be a girl or a boy. What do you think? I have 2 daughters who were both a great joy to raise. I have added 2 step children to the process - one girl; one boy. A few years ago, I would have opted for a girl without question. Having experienced a step-son, I can really enjoy having another guy around. Little girls are fun to dress up but it's easier for me to understand how a boy would think (no bias here...I am one).

Bottom line - I will enjoy (and spoil) either. I will keep you posted when gender is determined. :)

What do they call you?

Since this will be the first grandchild, the question comes up, "what do they call you?" The first grandchild has a foundational role in identifying your "name." My first daughter picked up the term "grandmamma" from our talk about her grandmother. She understood that her grandfather was both the same and different. Her logical deduction was that he should have a similar but not identical name. Therefore her label was "gram."

There are so many variations. While parental influence plays a role, ultimately, the first grandchild names you. That name will endure and perhaps even cross family sides. My brother and I were near the end of the grandchildren on one side of the family but the first two on the other side. We picked up the "grandparental names" from Mom's side and carried them to Dad's side of the family - establishing them for generations. Since my parents came from different states, the name carried over geographical boundaries (part of what is called "Human Geography").

Enough for now...stormy blessings (Rita)!

New Grandpa!

Well, just heard two days ago that I am going to be a grandfather March 27th 2006! At 52, I'm not the youngest on record. The time seems about right. It could have happened sooner. My oldest daughter is almost 30, but this child will be born to my younger daughter who will be 26 in December. I am excited! :)

Your advice is welcome. If it is not forthcoming, I will figure things out. What I need first is a toy catalog! I must update my knowledge of the best toys and fun things. I'm not worrying about anything but the fun. :)

Seriously, I may well muse here about raising children. My advice might fall short since I was not the world's greatest father. However, I can at least provide some advice on what NOT to do.

Blessings on my grandbaby!